Cedar Rapids · Iowa · Est. with love

Till I'm there,
hold this bear.

Custom teddy bears made from the clothing of someone who's physically absent — so a child, a partner, a parent can carry them anywhere, until they're back home.

Two sizes · 17” & 20” · Includes a personalized postcard

Three handmade Till I'm There teddy bears
Back of a Till I'm There postcard with a handwritten message

Dear Emma,

Dad

See the impact

She opened the box.
Then she read the letter.

Shawnese’s brother, James Caveye, is serving a life sentence.

“Shawnese, you’re the limb that I held onto… thanks for being there.”

Artwork by James Caveye

James's colored-pencil raccoon drawing
James's drawing
→
The drawing printed onto fabric
Printed fabric
→
The finished raccoon-print bear
Her bear

Pick your fabric

Choose a customized option for your bear

It’s not just a bear. It’s everything.

+ shipping $11.54 per bear (priority $15.74) · tax included · each bear comes with a personalized postcard

Prefer paper? Download the mail-in order form (PDF) →

Made for

The people who can't be there — and the people who miss them.

Each bear is hand-stitched from a shirt or piece of clothing you send us, accompanied by a personalized postcard. It becomes a tangible link between the two of you, no matter what's keeping you apart.

  • Incarceration

    Bonds that survive distance.

  • Hospital Stays

    A constant when nothing else is.

  • Military Deployment

    Home, in your arms.

  • Business Travel

    Goodnight from anywhere.

  • Loss & Memory

    Something to hold onto.

I believe her bears have the potential to be bigger than Beanie Babies were!
— Inmate at FCI
This woman has in me a devoted fan, promoter of her craft, and cheerleader in her cause.
— Inmate at Sheridan
I hope millions of people order your bears because I know your work will impact so many lives.
— Facebook comment
I don't have the words to say how special of a thing you're doing for people.
— Reddit
This gives me happy goosebumps!
— Facebook comment

Did you know

6.2 million U.S. adults have a loved one incarcerated.

2.7 million children have a parent who is incarcerated. Family bonds reduce recidivism — and tangible objects help children process feelings of abandonment, loneliness, and stress.

2.7M

Children with an incarcerated parent

6.2M

Adults with a loved one incarcerated

From your door to theirs

Five simple steps. One unforgettable hug.

  1. 01

    Pick their clothes, art or letter

    Clothing: heavier fabrics hold up best (heavy cotton, flannel, or fleece). Art or a handwritten letter: you'll upload a clear, flat photo when you order.

  2. 02

    Place your order

    Order online: choose your bears, add photos for art or letters, pick who signs the postcard and where it ships.

  3. 03

    Clothing? Mail it to us

    Send them to:

    C/O: Till I'm There Bear4120 Elkhorn Dr NECedar Rapids, IA 52411

    We'll email you when it arrives. Art and letter bears skip this step.

  4. 04

    Patiently wait 2–3 weeks

    Every bear is handmade with care.

  5. 05

    Receive your bear

    Beautifully wrapped, ready to gift, accompanied by a personalized postcard from the person they miss.

Note: Unfortunately we can’t return unused shirts or fabric.

Two handmade bears resting in grass

Hold this bear,
until I’m back home.

Personalized postcard included

What’s included

One Bear.
One Personalized Postcard.
One Unmistakeable Hug.

  • A teddy bear hand-crafted from the shirt(s) you provide
  • A personalized postcard.
  • Beautifully wrapped, ready to gift on arrival
“Tangible objects reduce the emotionally and mentally damaging feelings of abandonment in children of incarcerated parents.”

These treasured keepsakes provide comfort during times of separation.

Research summarized by Till I’m There Bears

Ready when you are

Send a hug that can travel anywhere.

Place an order in a few minutes. Pay with PayPal, Cash App, or by check / money order. We’ll guide you through every step.

Sample handwritten postcard included with each bear